Well Shut Me Up...

It's funny how everything was roses
When we held onto the guns.

boku-n0-pizza:

Meme I made for Milk. Still kinda angry that when she tried to tone it down and ended up getting eliminated.

boku-n0-pizza:

Meme I made for Milk. Still kinda angry that when she tried to tone it down and ended up getting eliminated.

I have recently noticed that there is a really vicious and nasty culture of shaming people who don’t have children.
After stumbling across this Facebook post, I am truly shocked by the appalling comments. The topic of the article is about the “Unbaby me” app, which is apparently very controversial. It is also apparent that according to some of these people, if you don’t have children, you are a hedonistic, narcissistic, celebrity-obsessed party animal.
Here are examples of some of the comments:


Can I get an app to hide the skanky pictures girls share??? I mean, if they can hide pictures of my beautiful daughter, I should be able to hide their disturbing camel toe.”

Some of them were targeting one individual (Kelly) who found the app to be quite useful - 

Kelly if you are that annoyed by pictures and statuses of their children then you are obviously not really friends with them so why are they on your friends list to begin with?”

"If someone wants to un baby me, they should just lets know and I’ll go ahead and un friend them, cuz they are obviously not a friend!"

"you obvioisly do not have kids. You live, breathe and sleep for your kids.. You don’t have an identity outside of your kids anymore… which friends understand. At least good ones"

Wow kelly. You must not have kids because sorry but I may have an “identity” outside of my child bu I do not have a life outside of her. She is my life period. And she is eating chicken nuggets just so you know. “

Give me a good reason why I want to see pictures of you trashed, dancing like a whore, you in a dirty mirror, sticking your ass out or giving the middle finger??? At least kids are cute. Why would I want to read about how you are so drunk?? Or that youre lookin to go out tonight?? or stupid song lyrics????”

This is my opinion. If you are that nasty and hateful of a person to assume that someone is a ‘whore,’ or a ‘skank’ for not having children, then you probably should not have had them. Because you are going to be responsible for breeding more hateful, nasty people.
If you want children, that’s your 
business. But it is in no way acceptable for you to trash people that don’t want that lifestyle. To put people down like that is actually bullying, and I don’t see how you could possibly be a good parent if you are bullying others.

It is just disgusting, and it has to stop. Also, your identity does not have to be forsaken for your children. I live by the words of RuPaul; if you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love somebody else? That applies to every aspect of your life, including being a parent, if that’s the lifestyle you chose. How can you be a good parent if you become a mindless drone, obeying your children and giving in to their every whim? You’re the boss, it’s your life, and your children should answer to you.


I’m going to end this by saying that I personally do not want children. I am in a long term relationship, and we have agreed that having children is not for us. But I solemnly believe that even if I were single, I would feel the same way. I do not party, I am not a whore, or a skank. I do not post shameless, crude photographs of myself on social media. My ambitions include a career full of travel, art, and fun. I want to travel the world and work as an artist in many countries. I want to gain knowledge and educate others. I want to make the world a better place. I want to marry my partner and live the rest of our lives together.
And I am not going to change my mind about wanting kids, so don’t put that shit on me. Are you going to change your mind about wanting them?

Children are not an interest of mine, and just because I don’t particularly like them, that does not mean I’m a bad friend. I simply am not interested in seeing them in my news feed. (Also, there’s a huge child pornography industry, so if I did have children, I would not compromise their identity by posting their pictures on social media). And just because I don’t want to see baby pictures, that doesn’t make me a monster. I just don’t give a shit. Your baby has nothing to do with me.

Let’s all just be tolerant of one another. If you know someone who doesn’t want children, instead of trying to change their mind, maybe make an effort to open yours. Find out why they don’t want them. Maybe they’ll want to find out why you do. 



We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls, ‘You can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise you will threaten the man.’ Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important. Now marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support. But why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don’t teach boys the same? We raise girls to see each other as competitors – not for jobs or for accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing, but for the attention of men. We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are.

We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls, ‘You can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise you will threaten the man.’ Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important. Now marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support. But why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don’t teach boys the same? We raise girls to see each other as competitors – not for jobs or for accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing, but for the attention of men. We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are.

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Courtney Act on body image and self-confidence

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sixpenceee:

guykneecologist:

This.

omfg reblogging till the end of time

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Tell me again about “age appropriate dressing”…I have nothing but sadness for people who condemn themselves to a life of mundanity. It’s funny that people claim that by wearing plain ‘comfortable’ clothes that they don’t care what they look like; when if they truly didn’t care what they looked like, why wouldn’t they wear brightly coloured, ‘eccentric,’ or at least fashionable clothes? Why not make the most of life and really have fun with clothing? It’s just fashion, for fuck’s sake. 

americasnext-topsupreme:

Rupaul’s Drag Race Season 6?
You mean Rupaul’s Drag Race Season of bullshit calls?
1. Milk being sent home
2. Trinity lasting as long as she did for countless episodes of excuses
3. Using The Non Elimination on Ben & Darienne
4. DARIENNE BEING SAFE AND BEN SASHAYING AWAY?!
5. MILK BEING SENT HOME (WHICH IM STILL NOT OVER)
6. Vivacious not sticking around because I wanted to see more crazy club kid looks

fukkkres:

when ur eating dinner at your friends house

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and their parents start arguing

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and you want to ask for the salt

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but the salt is right in between their upcoming divorce

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“i honestly don’t remember doing that”

—   me about 85% of the things i’ve done (via jaclcfrost)

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captainsaveyamammy:

dynastylnoire:

men on tumblr

Men in general

captainsaveyamammy:

dynastylnoire:

men on tumblr

Men in general

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justinacuff:

"Today, the richest 400 Americans have more wealth than the bottom 150 million of us put together. Now, think about it. 400 people have more wealth than half the population of the United States." — Robert Reich, Inequality For All

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I don’t understand why people congratulate one another for becoming pregnant. A sperm found it’s way to your egg, whoopdedoo! There are 7 billion other examples of that happening on this earth RIGHT NOW! 
I’ll only congratulate you when that child grows into a wonderful, kind, loving, well-rounded human being with ambition, pride, and an open, accepting mind. 
That will be a testament to your parenting skills, and will deserve congratulations; for that is far rarer than a sperm finding it’s way to an egg.

houseofalexzander:

Lustrous.

A man in the grocery store line today approached me and said, “Sir, when I first saw you I was extremely attracted to you, but then I noticed that you are a boy. How… I mean, why do you dress so provocatively?”

I responded, “Well, in today’s world the majority of the straight male race view women as objects, or something that belongs to them. I dress provocatively because it attracts the attention of men in a sexual and OBJECTIVE way. However, when realized that I am actually male, they often become confused, disgusted, upset or all of the above. By inflicting this minor emotional damaged upon the ego of a man raised by twisted societal gender norms, maybe, just maybe the individual will think twice before viewing another woman with an objective attitude and sense of belonging. No woman, belongs to ANYONE. Male or female, the equality of human beings needs to be a priority. It is something worth dressing up for.”

I AM NOT KIDDING. The woman behind me, the female cashier, the old lady bagging groceries and the woman in front of me who was talking on the phone STOPPED, …. and proceeded to gasp and clap. The man shook my hand, told me to have a blessed day and then said, “excuse me ladies, I need to visit my daughter.”

…. I was shaking by the time I walked out of the store.

- Elliott Alexzander

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